I think I have developed an addiction to photography! I’ve been on bed rest for a week and I feel like I am DYING to photograph something! It has only been 7 days since the last wedding. Yeah, I kinda have issues!
But that’s not what I really love about what I do. I LOVE the people that we meet, and I think Matt is becoming addicted, too! We really enjoy working with the couples we meet, and if I don’t feel a strong connection with a couple, I have started to decline weddings. I hate to do that, but this is such a personal day in a couple’s life and there has to be a mutual connection there. Boy, it sounds like dating, doesn’t it?!
This week has been so wonderful. We received an invitation to a baby shower for a couple we worked with last fall! We are so honored to be invited to that, because it says something about the relationships we’ve built along the way.
Yesterday I received an email from Christina, whose wedding we shot just over a week ago. She said “I want us to stay friends. Brian and I want to go skiing, do you two do that?” She is just too cute! Yeah, of COURSE I want us to stay friends as well! They were such a fun couple!
We are not “vendors.” I had someone say that word to me once during a consult, and I closed my eyes and squinched my nose and laughed and said “Ooh, please don’t call me a vendor!” Haha! It just takes out the personal and creative elements of being a wedding photographer.
Tonight we met with such an awesome couple. It was probably the shortest meeting we have ever had with a couple, and I think they pretty much made up their minds before we met because they were ready to book after a few short minutes. We knew right off the bat that they were going to be fun to work with. Some things are just meant to be! I suppose you have to have the heart of a romantic to be a wedding photographer. I love LOVE and I love working with people who are in love!
Another thing I really love about photography is meeting and getting to know other photographers! I’m meeting more and more people every day, and I love that we don’t see each other as competition. Everyone has their own unique style and a bride is going to be attracted to different people for different reasons. I’m more than happy to refer couples to other photographers if they are looking for something different or if I am not available.
So in this small world of ours, photographers have a special bond. Photography is a universal language that we can all understand. I was reading through the various blogs I follow when I came across the blog of my new friend, the St. Lucia Wedding Gugu Kirk Elliott! I am not even sure how we got connected. It happened through Twitter, though I can’t recall if he added me or I added him first. Either way, we started following one another on Twitter and then we became friends on Facebook. As I read his blog today, I saw that he mentioned my name. As I read on, I realized the article was about me and how he was touched that we became friends! That really brightened my day. I just think Kirk creates some gorgeous images, and some day I declare that I am going to go to St. Lucia and we are going to shoot together! I just think he has a wonderful personality and I know it would be so fun for us to be able to share in our love of photography sometime!
I’m in pain from my surgery still and it hurts to laugh, yet I am SOOO fulfilled and happy right in this moment. It’s a beautiful thing! I just felt compelled to blog about it! : )